10 signs of a man who will hurt you

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To quit or not quit is the question. If it was this dilemma that once overcame Hamlet, everything would probably be much simpler. However, the philosophical question "To be or not to be?" seemed to him much more entertaining. However, the point here is not in Hamlet. For all the reason - he, that same beautiful prince, with whom, following the oath to the registrar employee, you will live your whole life both in grief and in joy.


But if vague doubts about your future are gnawing at you, it's time to check, and is that prince your fairy tale?

Here are the top 10 reasons to think about your relationship.

Lack of attention
You have already forgotten when he last sent a message with the words “good morning” or “I love you”, and calls from him in general became akin to luxury. To transfer dates for an hour before the meeting became his habit, and he explains his behavior with a bunch of cases and incredible employment. Promises to call back end with the fact that ... yes they do not end with anything. And if you call him back yourself, then you risk getting a cold and brief answer: "I forgot."

Friends are more important to him.
What could be better than meeting with your girlfriend (if, of course, the word “beloved” has not lost its relevance)? Of course, football, beer, fishing and a lot of friends. At least your boyfriend thinks so. Who argues that male friendship is a sacred cause? But about the relationship, too, do not forget.

Meeting with friends is a kind of VIP-event, which you are not recommended to attend. But what to do if romantic secluded evenings are left behind, and men's gatherings are organized almost every day? Only one way out: to meet him in the circle of your mutual friends. Or not to meet at all.

Greed
Restaurants, going to the cinema and theater have become your unrealizable dream. And about gifts and flowers, you generally safely forgot. But to please yourself beloved with expensive purchases nothing prevents it. Looks like he's not ready to spend money on you. And his behavior says a lot.

You have nothing to talk about
Your conversations are now limited to discussing everyday problems, gossip about common acquaintances or disputes on various topics. He does not support you and is not at all interested in your life (when was the last time he asked how you were doing?). But he doesn’t have enough time to tell about all his problems, “exploits” at work or other events, the significance of which, as it seems to him, exceeds all indicators on a scale of importance.

Indifference
The words “You look amazing!” You are used to hearing from other men, not from him, but he doesn’t say the phrase “Where are you going and when will you return?” Even for the sake of decency. We have to admit that he does not bother for you. Delays at work, late returns home and night calls to your number do not interest him at all. You do not have to rely on his help and support. In general, the phrase “in grief and joy” is clearly not about you. Having a problem, a cold or just a bad mood makes you call not him, but your friends. Ask yourself a question: why? Maybe you are not as close as you would like?

Interest in other girls
Increasingly, you began to notice how he looks at the passing persons. Once you leave, to powder the nose, like a minute later he is already enthusiastically talking with an unfamiliar girl. Do not dispute the statement that looking at the fair sex is a common thing for men. This is pure physiology. However, in all good to know when to stop. So, if the diagnosis of “potential lovelace” is not amenable to any treatment, maybe you should change the “patient”?

Unreasonable jealousy
He calls you five times a day and controls your every move. It hardly speaks of unlimited love. Rather, about distrust. He considers you his property, and it is unlikely that this feeling will subside with time.

He doesn't want a serious relationship.
Serious relationship - not something that he sought all his life. Meet, take a walk and run up - that's his motto. He is in no hurry to introduce you to his friends and relatives. This state of affairs absolutely does not suit you, and, most likely, in the near future you will simply get tired of it. You want a family, children, and he certainly will not like this idea. In this case, do not rush to conclusions: maybe he is just not ready to start a family? The best option is to ask him about future plans in your life together. If he does not want to change anything, then it is worth thinking, but do you need this game in the sandbox?

Fading passions
Where did the former spark and attraction to each other, which you constantly experienced? Passed love, tomatoes wilted, but the passion and does not speak. You no longer experience the euphoria of one of his glances. If it’s hard for you and you don’t know what your relationship leads to, just let the person go in search of your true love. But do not forget that it is better to measure seven times and cut once.

Neglect
His plans are constantly changing, and you will know about it ... completely by chance! You constantly convict him of lying. He can in an instant get together and leave, slamming the door behind him and not explaining the reasons for his behavior. One should not believe the words “I missed you so much”, which are pronounced only on the eve of a passionate night. Especially if the entire previous week from him there was no answer, no greeting. If a man really loves you, he will not disappear for the whole week just because he wanted to be alone. In any case, he will inform about his plans and will not leave you alone with the unknown.

Have you already considered two reasons to quit a guy? Do not hurry shed tears! At a minimum, this is an opportunity to reflect on your relationship. And as a maximum - to find the strength and part with it, thereby laying the foundation for something new and interesting!