Treason is not a vice: 5 facts that this is not an unconditional reason to part

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Treason is not a vice: 5 facts that this is not an unconditional reason to part



1. Cheating is common
If you take a randomly selected audience of several hundred middle-aged people and ask them to raise the
hands of those who participated in the triangle whose parents or friends have changed, then almost everyone will answer in the affirmative. Therefore, there is no point in concealing a problem or pretending that “this does not happen in my world”.

2. This is more complicated than many people think.
It is impossible to divide events only into black and white, there are no uniquely good and bad people. It is the same with infidelity: its very fact in denial of circumstances, motives, feelings of guilt and other things should not be an unambiguous reason for parting. Yes, it is very unpleasant, but situations really are different.

3. Treason is not just sex
One of the main mistakes when thinking about treason is to assume that the person just wanted to sleep with someone nice. Of course, sometimes it happens, but in a long-term relationship, betrayal often means finding yourself. It happens, a person changes - and understands that he has re-connected with the lost parts of himself as a person, with vital force. So you can better understand what is missing in the basic relationships and what they should be. Although all this, of course, can not serve as a pretext for side activities.

4. Jealousy is the norm.
Jealousy in any manifestation is an unpleasant feeling. But it helps a person ... yes, better understand yourself. The main thing is that it does not affect life in general.

5. Monogamy is not a dogma.

In the modern world, various relationships are possible, including partners from outside. Some even more comfortable, and in such a framework the concept of treason acquires a completely different meaning. This, too, should be borne in mind: if you, by mutual agreement, “opened up” a marriage, it makes no sense to nag each other for each attempt to have an affair.